Nah were not identical, truthfully i'm not sure if a guy girl set can be identical. Something i should look into. But we don't feel pain or nothing like that, but we do have a connection, probably like anyone who has been around a long ass time would though too, we know what each other is thinking, we say the same word at the same time a lot, laugh at the same things, but thats more like common things. But it's not like i can read her mind or pinch myself when i'm mad at her so she feels it too.