the official " tell me whats wrong with your life thread"
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no defintely not, i made this thread for everyone to help each other out, lol, i cant do it all myslef.
im fucked like that to in school, i couldnt study anymore, studying is impossible for me, my mind just drifts so easy into things im acutaly interested in, and it drags in the back of your mind when u know your gonna fail at school.
but, i got to the point in my life where they said to me at school, either catch up on all your work or walk out now. unfortunately i left and regretted not finishing school so bad to the point where it almost made me depressed. 6 months later i woulda paid a million to be able to go back 6 months to the point where i could turned it around and got all my work up to date. but it was too late. anyway what i mean is, your in that stage where you can turn all your work around and have a decent attempt at passing. you'l never be in that situation again, despite however much you hate school. as far as rapping, deifntely keep goin with that. but when its something you love doing i wouldnt wanna make it a task. like if you leave school and work on that your realy relying on it 100% and its probaly not a situation you'd wanna be in. but defintely keep writing man and shit could happen.
im fucked like that to in school, i couldnt study anymore, studying is impossible for me, my mind just drifts so easy into things im acutaly interested in, and it drags in the back of your mind when u know your gonna fail at school.
but, i got to the point in my life where they said to me at school, either catch up on all your work or walk out now. unfortunately i left and regretted not finishing school so bad to the point where it almost made me depressed. 6 months later i woulda paid a million to be able to go back 6 months to the point where i could turned it around and got all my work up to date. but it was too late. anyway what i mean is, your in that stage where you can turn all your work around and have a decent attempt at passing. you'l never be in that situation again, despite however much you hate school. as far as rapping, deifntely keep goin with that. but when its something you love doing i wouldnt wanna make it a task. like if you leave school and work on that your realy relying on it 100% and its probaly not a situation you'd wanna be in. but defintely keep writing man and shit could happen.
At least you have a job though. May not be what you plan on doing for the rest of your life, but it's a start.
Driving is overrated. Especially when you have to pay shit loads for petrol and insurance and repairs and the odd speeding ticket...lol. Financially, you're better off sticking to public transport or being chauffered around!
You'll meet a great guy sometime, no doubt about that. You're young and attractive with a fun personality. Maybe you just need a change of scenery coz I'd imagine you'd have no trouble meeting people...hey there'd be plenty of hot aussie boys waiting for you here...
lol. Yeah, I felt that way myself yesterday. My dickhead ex has been trying to alienate me from my best friend and another close friend by saying bullshit crap about me... hmm, a saw would come in very handy indeed.
lol @ Grimey calling me Amura! hehehe
Driving is overrated. Especially when you have to pay shit loads for petrol and insurance and repairs and the odd speeding ticket...lol. Financially, you're better off sticking to public transport or being chauffered around!
You'll meet a great guy sometime, no doubt about that. You're young and attractive with a fun personality. Maybe you just need a change of scenery coz I'd imagine you'd have no trouble meeting people...hey there'd be plenty of hot aussie boys waiting for you here...
lol. Yeah, I felt that way myself yesterday. My dickhead ex has been trying to alienate me from my best friend and another close friend by saying bullshit crap about me... hmm, a saw would come in very handy indeed.
lol @ Grimey calling me Amura! hehehe
- A university took away a $3000 CAD scholarship because of some mistake in the form i filled (some stupid shit like my 4 looked like a 9 for social security #) and its too late to get it back
- I broke my thumb
- I keep CDs in my garage for when we play basketball outside and listen to music, and someone stole $250 worth of CDs when i left my garage open
- I can't play basketball with my broken thumb
- I can't stop making up fake problems and posting them on message forums
but really, everything is going great. i couldnt complain :thumb:
- I broke my thumb
- I keep CDs in my garage for when we play basketball outside and listen to music, and someone stole $250 worth of CDs when i left my garage open
- I can't play basketball with my broken thumb
- I can't stop making up fake problems and posting them on message forums
but really, everything is going great. i couldnt complain :thumb:
Well, it didn't go great. He contested the child support order so now we have to go in front of a judge. The woman we saw today pretty much told him he was gonna be paying regardless of what he has to say but he still contested so we go back May 25th. Then he lied about what he makes. Why they didn't make him prove his income I don't understand but they didn't. They just took his word for it so they only set his payments at $84/week. What kinda shit is that anyway? $84 won't even buy a weeks worth of groceries so I'm still in the same situation. I'm going to talk to somebody next week and tell them that he's lying about his income and I want him to have to prove what he makes when we go to court. He claimed he only makes $10/hr and only works 30 hrs/week which I know for a fact is bullshit. He's a foreman on his job, I know he makes more than that and I know he works at the very least 40 hrs/week, for a fact. He has a house payment, electricity, phone, internet, satellite, makes payments on a brand new car plus the insurance and he thinks Ima believe he does all this on $300/wk? BULLSHIT! And to top it all off, the kids wouldn't go with him when he came to pick them up today so I had em call him earlier and tell him they would be coming to his house in the morning because I have to work. So he tells em he has to work and their step-bitch already made other plans so nobody will be there. So now what am I supposed to do? I have to work and I have nobody to watch them. I'll prolly end up having to call in because I won't have a babysitter.
I just feel like dying right now. Nothing is going right for me and I feel like such a loser. This has to be close to the shittest day I've ever had in my life.
I just feel like dying right now. Nothing is going right for me and I feel like such a loser. This has to be close to the shittest day I've ever had in my life.
Luv4Pac4Ever said:
Well, it didn't go great. He contested the child support order so now we have to go in front of a judge. The woman we saw today pretty much told him he was gonna be paying regardless of what he has to say but he still contested so we go back May 25th. Then he lied about what he makes. Why they didn't make him prove his income I don't understand but they didn't. They just took his word for it so they only set his payments at $84/week. What kinda shit is that anyway? $84 won't even buy a weeks worth of groceries so I'm still in the same situation. I'm going to talk to somebody next week and tell them that he's lying about his income and I want him to have to prove what he makes when we go to court. He claimed he only makes $10/hr and only works 30 hrs/week which I know for a fact is bullshit. He's a foreman on his job, I know he makes more than that and I know he works at the very least 40 hrs/week, for a fact. He has a house payment, electricity, phone, internet, satellite, makes payments on a brand new car plus the insurance and he thinks Ima believe he does all this on $300/wk? BULLSHIT! And to top it all off, the kids wouldn't go with him when he came to pick them up today so I had em call him earlier and tell him they would be coming to his house in the morning because I have to work. So he tells em he has to work and their step-bitch already made other plans so nobody will be there. So now what am I supposed to do? I have to work and I have nobody to watch them. I'll prolly end up having to call in because I won't have a babysitter.
I just feel like dying right now. Nothing is going right for me and I feel like such a loser. This has to be close to the shittest day I've ever had in my life.
I just feel like dying right now. Nothing is going right for me and I feel like such a loser. This has to be close to the shittest day I've ever had in my life.
The system here really sucks. I couldn't believe they just took his word for what he makes. And when I know for a fact he's lying, it's even more frustrating. You tell me how somebody works at least 8-9 hrs/day Mon-Thurs, half a day on Fri and lately at least half a day on Sat only gets 30 hrs/wk? First grade math will tell you different than that. Yeah, he's definately being an ass, which is nothing new so I'm basically used to it. It just pisses me off that he's doing his own kids like that, kids that he claims he loves so much. If you love em so much, why you trying to deprive them of things, ya know? And I think the kids are noticing it too because they rarely want to go with him on the weekends which is not good for me cause then I hafta get somebody to watch em. My mom keeps em for me cause I can't afford to pay somebody to keep em. But she's getting to where she's bitching about it lately. So I get really frustrated about it sometimes. I just hope they'll give me a little more than $84/wk so I can pay a babysitter instead of putting them on my mom.
Thanks for all your advice. I really appreciate the listening ear lol It's good to be able to vent sometimes and to have somebody to give an outside take on things. Thanks.
Thanks for all your advice. I really appreciate the listening ear lol It's good to be able to vent sometimes and to have somebody to give an outside take on things. Thanks.
Yeah, I understand that. But what I figure is, you really have to work to make things happen, even if it takes years, it never comes easily - you gotta earn it. It's too impatient of us to expect to have accomplished all those goals in such a short space of time, and when you think about it, you really are still very young.... Life may feel like its rushing by but it's really not in the grand scheme of things.