Is it just me?

#1
Is it just me or does it seem like the more and more im on this site, the more and more judgemental i become. Im on here talking about music and judging it constantly, constantly judging things. It just feels wierd as hell. Im on this message board talking to complete strangers that i know nothing about, and im always judging and over analyzing shit. None of u know me, and u prob already have assumed many things about me.

Its just wierd cause these are the things i try and stray away from in real life, face to face interaction, and yet im on here talking all this crazyness, like i actually know what im talking about.

I just feel like there is so much to learn, so much to obsorb. I realize that there is so much out in the world that i will never see because i spend to much time thinking about the things ive already seen.
 
#3
^ i was saying that I, myself, have become more judgemental since getting on this site, just because im constantly judging things ive heard/seen/read. The funny thing is Im judging someone on what they type and yet i dont know the first thing about them.

Like when am i just gonna set back and enjoy every NEW day instead of judging the past.
 

Casey

Well-Known Member
Staff member
#4
HiGhTillDeaTH said:
Is it just me or does it seem like the more and more im on this site, the more and more judgemental i become. Im on here talking about music and judging it constantly, constantly judging things. It just feels wierd as hell. Im on this message board talking to complete strangers that i know nothing about, and im always judging and over analyzing shit. None of u know me, and u prob already have assumed many things about me.

Its just wierd cause these are the things i try and stray away from in real life, face to face interaction, and yet im on here talking all this crazyness, like i actually know what im talking about.

I just feel like there is so much to learn, so much to obsorb. I realize that there is so much out in the world that i will never see because i spend to much time thinking about the things ive already seen.
Haha, you're thinking too much man. Just kick back, go with the flow. Life is a trip, enjoy the ride! I know what you mean about being judgemental, that's why I stay in my safe zone pretty much on this site (Don't Stop The Music) these days, because there it's all about good music, I like to recommend and be recommended stuff and there's no attitudes, ego's or people thinking they know better than others, like you tend to find on a lot of sections on here. I find the reason for that is because the people with the attitude problems who think they know it all generally don't know shit and are not open-minded at all - so they're completely lost when it comes to discussing music outside of their "preferred genre" if you know what I mean.

And yeah, there's always a lot of stuff to absorb. But you're never gonna do it all, so just enjoy life the way you want to and don't stress over things too much....Life's too short.
 

Suzy

New Member
#7
within my first few days here i've noticed how judgemental people can be.
it's just one of the downsides of being part of a messageboard community
 
#12
just he words taht girl used..."message board community".....wow....when i hear that i feel that im bounded to this place...like everybody here is good friends with one another...yet, we dont know the first thing about each other....oh..he's black...he's canadian....great.....

being on this board, more and more, im starting to realize, that some people are really sickos on this site....sickos meaning, this board is their life....this is all they do in their freetime...it was like that with me from the beginning, but now i kinda cooled down a bit.....but all these confrontations and e-beefs....this would never happen in real life....everybody would puss out....

i just thought i'd write that, cuz you noticed that change in yourself....and i noticed that in myself....some people take this shit seriously....just stay away from those people...
 
#14
^^^ oh right, and im just formulating my own on those people...nothing wrong with that...i love this place with all my heart...as tiny as it is, im not dissing this place....im just saying...some freaks need to back off....freaks being those that start e-beefs....you're not cool...or "gansturr"...please...gangsters dont use computers....gangsters dont offer help in the tech section...does 50 cent say, "ay, configure your router to use protocol GM6842342932...that should allow you to reach proxy setting 69, and allow you to play everquest with no lag"??? does he??? no!! 50 would say "fuck technology"....man...did i just explain why i said all that?? i got way too many feelings about some people here...
 
#15
well, not sure to get the point, but i agree about the fact that some people here have a specialty at judging others cuz a computer screen is a easy way of talking shit and forget about their fagness

but hey, nevermind, learn for yourself
 

SiGh

Who's there?
Staff member
#16
tennis_dog said:
^^^ oh right, and im just formulating my own on those people...nothing wrong with that...i love this place with all my heart...as tiny as it is, im not dissing this place....im just saying...some freaks need to back off....freaks being those that start e-beefs....you're not cool...or "gansturr"...please...gangsters dont use computers....gangsters dont offer help in the tech section...does 50 cent say, "ay, configure your router to use protocol GM6842342932...that should allow you to reach proxy setting 69, and allow you to play everquest with no lag"??? does he??? no!! 50 would say "fuck technology"....man...did i just explain why i said all that?? i got way too many feelings about some people here...

"gangsters" dont use computers? :laugh:
 
#17
lol, I dunno what point everyone is making... especially tennis dog, but definately it's hard not to be judgmental. The more you get to know people on here the more opinions you form. And the more responsibility I've gotten on this site, the more cynical I've become of people on here. It's no longer just post for shit and giggles ... you have to deal with bitching and whinging constantly and so it's takes out a lot of the fun... which only makes me more judgmental and cynical! I dunno what happened to the sweet as pie Amara that used to post here, silly bitch she was.
 

SiGh

Who's there?
Staff member
#18
Amara said:
The more you get to know people on here the more opinions you form. And the more responsibility I've gotten on this site, the more cynical I've become of people on here. It's no longer just post for shit and giggles ... you have to deal with bitching and whinging constantly and so it's takes out a lot of the fun... which only makes me more judgmental and cynical!
truth. that post applies to a few people
 

_carmi

me, myself & us
#19
hey i'm judgemental on the internet, but in the real life too. :thumb: everybody judges everybody cuz thats how society is now. all about trends, sex and judgements.
 

Jibster

Active Member
#20
The poster of this thread was clearly stoned out of his tree when he posted this! :laugh: I know how you feel man, but chill with the weed dude!
 

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