I'm fucked
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jus b straight with him, no point lyin to him jus before u leave. It ill makin him lose trust in u. You don't want your dad to not trust you, just before you leave for the UK. Just be honest, he'll be angry but at least he'll be happy that you've not lied to him. Plus you leave soon so don't leave on a bad note. And start mixin with your family, jus to gain his trust.
btw where r u goin to study?
btw where r u goin to study?
he most likely won't be carrying with him the whole time.he probably put it somewhere in the house for now.maybe a jacket or something. find it and replace it with the tobacco one.
other than that you're pretty much fucked. if you don't find it to replace it, tell him straight up.its easier if you tell him than if he found out himself.tell him you didn't tell him at first cuz u were nervous of what he would say.
other than that you're pretty much fucked. if you don't find it to replace it, tell him straight up.its easier if you tell him than if he found out himself.tell him you didn't tell him at first cuz u were nervous of what he would say.
Personally I'd be honest with him and tell him I smoke marijuana sometimes. If it helps promise that you'll stop if it bothers him so much. Blame the pressures of life or some shit.
I was always honest with my parents. I don't have no secrets. They know who I am and the dumb shit I do. So they've been able to help me out when I've backed myself in a corner.
When I'm a parent I want my kids to be honest with me. No matter how bad the shit is, I wanna know so I can help.
I don't know how strict your parents are so... But most people appreciate honesty and having the balls to tell the truth in harsh circumstances.
I was always honest with my parents. I don't have no secrets. They know who I am and the dumb shit I do. So they've been able to help me out when I've backed myself in a corner.
When I'm a parent I want my kids to be honest with me. No matter how bad the shit is, I wanna know so I can help.
I don't know how strict your parents are so... But most people appreciate honesty and having the balls to tell the truth in harsh circumstances.
So I was planning to tell him last night but we had guests and I was asleep by the time they left.My dad wakes me up this morning, telling me he went to the anti-drug thing here and they told him it's hash.
I wont get too much into details, but I'm pretty much fucked up.I almost got kicked out of the house, almost got my bank account closed and I might not leave the country for uni anymore.He told me that nothing would happen if I told him where I got it from and who do I smoke with, and when I refused to tell him he told me he was going to send me to the Narcs and they'll get it all out of me.I told him to go for it and all, and that I can give two fucks about the narcs and it was only the new image I gave him about me that was killing me.We talked about it then and I gave him a fake name and place so that he can keep my brother away from them.
It's all good now, but he made me quit hash and cigarettes.I might stay here for a couple more years under his watch so he can make sure everything is going well.
Thanks for the advice anyways.
Brunel University
I wont get too much into details, but I'm pretty much fucked up.I almost got kicked out of the house, almost got my bank account closed and I might not leave the country for uni anymore.He told me that nothing would happen if I told him where I got it from and who do I smoke with, and when I refused to tell him he told me he was going to send me to the Narcs and they'll get it all out of me.I told him to go for it and all, and that I can give two fucks about the narcs and it was only the new image I gave him about me that was killing me.We talked about it then and I gave him a fake name and place so that he can keep my brother away from them.
It's all good now, but he made me quit hash and cigarettes.I might stay here for a couple more years under his watch so he can make sure everything is going well.
Thanks for the advice anyways.
Brunel University
Sorry shit didn't work out for you ramzi, that sucks that you might not be able to go to uni in the UK. Are you actually going to quit doing that shit, or are you just going to make your dad believe you quit? Actually I just thought of something. Maybe your dad didn't bring it to the anti drug thing, maybe he said he did to see if you admit it. I know my parents pulled that shit on me when I was younger, trick me into confessing shit.
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Well, I'm quitting for now.So it's hash, cigarettes, alcohol..I haven't had a cup coffee all day neither, they keep bringing me apple juice lol.It's like I'm on some special diet or something.I just woke up, cause I was craving for a cigarette.Like 15 minutes prior I welcomed some guests and was serving coffee, the moment I sat down till the moment I left he kept looking at me sideways as thought I might just burst any second.
Aaaah, I would'nt know, but by the sound of it, he definetly had it checked.I usually don't swallow everything he says cause I know him too well and I use those tactics on my siblings myself, but if it was true then I'm positive my phone is tapped right now and that I have a black mark on my file right now.They won't leave me alone unless I told them where I got it from, which is a no-no.They got no problem playing with my eyeballs just for the fuck of it lol.But they don't scare me bit.I can even him have them kicked out and have my file cleaned up, but it's the fact that things aint the same between me and my parents.I broke my mom's heart, too.If I left the country like scheduled there's no way in hell I'd get my parents' blessings.And it's Ramadan in 8 days and I don't need that in my life.Man, I never was religious but now I feel like changing and all just to please my mom cause she's religious and my dad will forgive me with time.
I never felt worse, but it's all good.
Moral of the story:Hide the munchies
Well, I'm quitting for now.So it's hash, cigarettes, alcohol..I haven't had a cup coffee all day neither, they keep bringing me apple juice lol.It's like I'm on some special diet or something.I just woke up, cause I was craving for a cigarette.Like 15 minutes prior I welcomed some guests and was serving coffee, the moment I sat down till the moment I left he kept looking at me sideways as thought I might just burst any second.
Aaaah, I would'nt know, but by the sound of it, he definetly had it checked.I usually don't swallow everything he says cause I know him too well and I use those tactics on my siblings myself, but if it was true then I'm positive my phone is tapped right now and that I have a black mark on my file right now.They won't leave me alone unless I told them where I got it from, which is a no-no.They got no problem playing with my eyeballs just for the fuck of it lol.But they don't scare me bit.I can even him have them kicked out and have my file cleaned up, but it's the fact that things aint the same between me and my parents.I broke my mom's heart, too.If I left the country like scheduled there's no way in hell I'd get my parents' blessings.And it's Ramadan in 8 days and I don't need that in my life.Man, I never was religious but now I feel like changing and all just to please my mom cause she's religious and my dad will forgive me with time.
I never felt worse, but it's all good.
Moral of the story:Hide the munchies