i know but, its an asshole, imagine a girl putting on a strap on and hitting u from the back, shes a girl, so technically by your defention, its not gay, BUT IT IS.
*Silleone's Tipity Tips*
If your girl is telling you to fuck her harder, angle your hand(in the form of a chop)and smack her on the back of her neck, it will render her unconscious.