bitches who hide there ugliness by saying normal hot girls are ugly becausetherep
The_One said:
Very similar situation in my highschool too. She was such a nice girl and nobody ever knew it because all the other girls portrayed her as a bitch. These girls were her 'friends'. I still talk to her, she's HOOOOOOT and doing much better in life without her 'friends' by her side. I learnt so much from her
But that's not what really pisses me off, what pisses me off is that EVERYONE in the world is shallow. EVERYONE, every single one of us (despite what you say) are nothing but shallow bastard. We're all puddles... some may be a bit deeper than others but we're still all shallow.
Say 2 people are a perfect match personality wise. Mr X and Miss Y. Mr X is an average looking guy and Miss Y is very attractive (or vice versa, it doesn't matter). Mr X and Miss Y will probably pass each other a million times in life without ever realising that they are the 'soul mates'. Mr X's jaw will drop everytime he see's Miss Y, he's heart will fasten etc etc, and Miss Y will just carry on without really realising anything else, just carrys on walking.
If the first thing we actually saw was personality rather than looks (which is impossible), the world would of been a happier place.
I agree. The world would most definitely be a better place. Unfortunately, we as humans have beliefs and mis-understandings about the appearance of other people.
People with money, fame, power, are have a far better chance at meeting some amazingly gorgeous people. While these gorgeous people are nice to look at it, they may not fit the personality that he/she is looking for, but they're blinded by the money, the power, or the fame. People have it inserted in their brain that poeple with these qualities, are more trustworthy then people without them.
I'm going off track with this, but I just wanted to talk about looks and personality a bit.
If you're interested in this theory, read the book " Influence " by Robert Cialdini. It kinda touches base with what this thread is discussing.
Peace