First off, I got to say that every one of your threads sounds like a fricking movie. You should make a reality TV show out of your life, like the EDtv movie.
As for the thread, I side with The Menace. I don't think there is such a thing, and if a person existed like that, you probably wouldn't realize it. There is not many people in the world that really know themselves and know how they appear to other people, completely. Most of the time, when I see two people that kind of act the same, personality-wise, they can't stand each other.